When you care about someone, you don't expose their weakness to other.
You Protect Them.
Start taking steps to set boundaries that protect your marriage from wrong behaviors.
Depending on the extent of the issue, you may have to start being selective about what you share with others.
For example:
Deep thoughts
Feelings
Aspirations might not be safe to express.
You know your marriage best, so use your judgment going forward. You may find that only certain topics need to be off-limits, rather than a broad change to your communication.
It’s critical to protect your marriage and guard your boundaries. Surround yourself with friends who will strengthen your marriage and remove yourself from people who may tempt you to compromise your character.
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